Monday, 29 February 2016

What we can do being part of Bipolar Support Group - Chennai, India?

It is a blessing to be associated with a group of like minded friends and families who will understand your situation and instead of showing sympathy, will in-fact share mutual respect and hope.    

Bipolar Support Group Chennai is such a great initiative and during its wonderful launch in the City recently, the families and friends who are all care-givers joined together in a hour long discussion which showcased various ways in which the support group can help themselves and each other.




25 Key Take-aways of the inaugural meeting of the Bipolar Support Group Chennai

1.   Engage in 'me' time.  All participants loved the idea of doing what you like, long forgotten hobbies or interests
2.  strengthen your belief in God and not to lose confidence in recovery
3.  Encourage spouses to trust in marriage and give a good try to make the marriage sustain and successful.
4.  Hope to avoid hatred and feelings to leave and run away from the situations
5.  Eat, sleep and exercise properly
6.  Rewind good old moments and recall all good work done in the past by the patients.
7.  To be responsible for emotional and psychological well being of the family.
8.  It is never possible to take full responsibility and to make every one in family to understand the support system
9. Explain the importance of medication by sharing experiences and suggestions
10.  Awareness discussion on the disease and to remove the stigma associated to mental illness
11.  Take help of doctors or para-medical staff to handle crisis intervention
12.  Plan and discuss to handle financial implications
13.  Take help to handle children, explain and educate them as needed
14.  Stop counter productivity 
15.  Be perseverant in the process of acceptance and focus on harmonious reslationships
16.  Take support when not able to match expectations
17.  Stop over care-giving , possessiveness and pampering that no one else can take care of the patient than you.  It is a myth
18.  Try to read and understand the information of the disease and understand the patient
19.  Build an under current attachment with acceptance and expressed emtions.
20.  Handle conflict information subtly and assimilation and stay informed
21.  Gain good insight of the disease and stop stigmatizing 
22.   Need to balance leaves and loss of job in the process of care-giving
23.  Maintain organizers to manage forgetfulness in handling multiple priorities
24.  Understanding of side effects of medication is very important and this will help to balance the patient's food, routine and sleep requirements.
25.  Practice meditation and yoga.  Keeping faith and confidence in life. 


 
 

Sunday, 14 February 2016

Why do we need Mental Illness Support Groups?

Lot of times, we shy away from talking about mental illness or having a need to take care of a relative, family or friend who is suffering from any form of mental illness.  To avoid this situation and also to deal with the care-giving support with full dedication and love,  encouraged by similar souls around us is the best form of medical care we give to ourselves as care-givers.

Why do we need Support Groups-  especially this group?

  • To share our experiences and feelings and understand that we have people who can think and help being in our shoes
  • Emotional support when we need that pep-up in life as we deal with difficult situation of medical care
  • Understanding the role of care giver with help of a doctor or a counsellor
  • Provide behind the screen support and fall back on each other during crises
  • Feeling that you are not alone and left behind and to improve care giving with mutual help
  • Understand the various problems that come in the care-giving process
Frequent Problems faced by Care-givers

1.  Not having adequate care giver education
2.  Repeated disturbance to normal life cycle
3.  Distraction from routine and work 
4.  Influencing children living with the patient
5.  Feeling of slowness to pace with the patients aggressive behaviour and ambitions
6. Humilitation due to stigma of mental illness still existent in our society due to stigma of mental illness still existant in our society.
7. Difficulty to accept dear one's mental illness
8.  Mental fatigue and lack of concentration 
9.  Fear of leaving behind the patient when going to work or running errands
10. Some cases, care-giving will be a life time requirement
11.  Burden of finances as mental illness insurance is still a debate in India
12.  Requirement to keep a watch always on the patient
13. Genetic impact may cause similar symptoms in the children as well
14  Reactions of anger, frustration and not being able to control emotional reactions all the time
15.  Places and situations may demand certain reactions which are answerable to the society.
16.  Not able to differentiate from normalcy and and not able to talk as reactions are not predictable
17.  Not being able to defuse aggressive situations 
18.  Pressure of doing a balancing act, and not able to educate children on acceptance of the illness of a loved one at home
19.  Feelings of helplessness and thinking to leave and go away
20.  Suicidal thoughts as an escape from care-giver role
21.  Guilty thoughts when forced to leave the patient in a home or hospice 
22. Sleeplessness due to fear and panic having ripple effects on care-giving.

A strong support system will help the care-givers address all these issues with confidence,  hope and care.
 
 


 

Wednesday, 10 February 2016

Know about Bipolar Disorder- Major Contributors and Challenges

Today Bipolar Disorder or the Depression -  any illness related to mental health or well being is not rare in our society.  Atleast 1 out of 100 people suffer from bipolar,  and 1 in 10 suffer from some form of mental illness.   Be it from minute level to extreme difficult medical conditions

Major contributors for mental illness in General and Bipolar Disorder in particular

1.  Genetic reasons
2.  Increasing levels of stress
3.  Circumstances that cause depression
4.  Over activeness
5.  Aggresssive
6.   Economic or Financial anxiety with too much expenditure
7.  Addiction to alcohol/ smoking or drugs
8.  Insomnia or sleep disturbances
9.  Dejection
10.  Introvert not being understood by people arond
11.  Excess sleep

Challenges of handling mental illness or bipolar disorder

1.  Continuous medication
2.  No time limit for cure and needs regular follow ups
3.  Minimum time taken to bring back to normal state usually is longer as minimum of 6 months and above
4.  Need to focus on relapse and remission prevention
5.  Counselling necessary for care givers to handle long term treatment
6.  Necessity to handle anxiety, sleep disorders
7.  Several problems that include, situations not being able to predict normalcy,  no insight into the disease,  agitative patients,  with no understanding,  and the reactions are unpredictable
8.  Aggravated situations that need immediate medical help
9.  Failure to identify early signs and symptoms
10. Restlessness and argumentative behaviour of the patients
11.  Patients insistance that everything is normal and behave overconfident
12.  suffering from multiple patters of sleep disorders, eating and social habits